While attending a Marriage Seminar dealing with communication, Mark and his wife Grace listened to the instructor;
"It is essential that husbands and wives know the things that are important to each other."
He addressed the man;
"Can you describe your wife's favourite flower?"
Mark leaned over, touched his wife's arm gently and whispered;
"It's Self raising, isn't it dear?
The rest of the story gets rather ugly, so I'll stop right here!